A sense of humour can make everything better. Sex isn’t like it is in the movies or in porn. There will be strange and weird and awkward sounds, there might be a silly interruption like the cat or a kid… you might knock heads or trip getting undressed. Sex is funny, foreplay is funny and sometimes you need to just laugh. It will keep things from getting awkward! If you take sex too seriously you aren’t truly enjoying it!
Not to mention a sense of humour can be really sexy no matter what your gender identity is!
I love this post so much omg
sometimes you can tell who you’re ACTUALLY intimate with, when you’re so comfortable making jokes and doing weird stuff in the middle of ~sexual stuff. When people make sex to be this whole ~srs mature thing, it feels as if they were trying to force intimacy. And if it needs to be forced, then it probably wasn’t there to begin with.
Favorite part of sex with someone: when it’s super obvious how comfortable together we are.
YEEEEEEEES THIS, SO MUCH THIS
A lot of people think laughing during sexytimes is bad. But this is the best kind of sex, and also the only one I can imagine myself having. Just being silly with each other and being ourselves and being together, even if we’re not gazing each other with complete, intense lust the WHOLE time. Sex is supposed to be intimate, and if you’re being intimate with someone you’ve got to be yourself and let go of those stigmatized hollywoodesque sex scenes in your head. You’re not supposed to be good at it, you’re just enjoying yourself with someone you love and I think that’s a very special moment that does not get ruined by laughter :)
Pfpfpfpf this is SO CUTE.
So cute, and very true!
Dude, like, I’d know shit was fucked if I couldn’t giggle a bit during sex if something happened. A bit TMI, but being able to laugh at something with my boyfriend during sex was absolutely monumental in becoming more comfortable and at ease with the whole thing.